February 23, 2018
What a way to start off the year, on a new country with people I never travelled with, to meet other people that are the same kind of nerd as me (probably much better nerds).
For a few months I’ve been getting anxiety about how I could make friends during this event, knowing that I am shy, knowing that my team lead is also shy.
And now that it’s over, let me share with you how the shy girl in me socialized
I’ve always portrayed myself as your typical vain girl in social media. That girl who goes broke for shopping and make up. That girl with the dog Snapchat filter. That girl who wants nothing but nice photos, even on normal days.
Yep, I’m that girl.
But I am also more than that.
"So what does a front end developer do?" I don’t know about you but this question give me panic attacks because I have no idea how to explain it accurately in 1 to 3 sentences where they won’t end up nodding their heads without get any of it.
One of the best part about the event was meeting people who understands my work. That was quite hard here at home, even those who have the same job description as I do, those who went to the same University as I did, we’d just find out how our work doesn't really align.
So take this opportunity to socialize with people like you who are probably shy too because we won’t get to everyday. I hope it’s enough reason to go out of your comfort zone, just like I did.
Here’s how we met most of the people we did
So I guess even if we’re the shy people we are, there’s no escape but to meet these new people we can now call friends.
One moment we are strangers, the next we’re talking about what we do, how was our flights, what is it like in our country.
I didn’t know if I should add this to my blog post but then I realized my goal for this one was to help other shy girls (or boys) too
So here’s one more list about things we mostly talked about, may it be a 5 minute chitchat or during a 30 minute walk looking for cheap restaurants, that I hope you can use too when you can’t find topics to talk about
It will all just come naturally, socializing.
Even my team lead, who I don’t talk to for weeks, who also happens to seat just next to me (before it became just the two of us on our team), is the one initiating topics, talking about his own opinions, making new friends. Just wow.
I know I met a lot of people but I also know I could’ve done better. I’ve noticed instances where my shyness still pulled me back a few times during the event.
So here’s my goals for my next conference:
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